The Truth Is Always Better !!

The TRUTH may hurt for a little while, but a LIE hurts forever!!

I know sometimes it can be hard to tell someone the truth, because you are taking their feelings into consideration. Honestly hearing the truth from a person you consider your friend is much better than hearing it from someone who barely knows you, if they know you at all. Most people fear the truth in certain situations. If you have a friend who has promiscuous tendencies let her know that she might wanna change her ways before she gets labeled as something negative. Be straight up with her so that she gets the point. Same thing goes for a person that buys this and that to increase their sex appeal thinking its helping when actually its making  the whole situation worse. Let them know that buying accessories, tight clothes, long hair, fancy cars, and what ever else people do to get noticed is not what they should be doing. Lazy people need to be told the truth also, that no one wants to clean up, take care, or support another grown person. So they need to get up and do something with their life. People who eat to much, just tell them that it is not healthy, and that they need to slow down. You are not trying to hurt anyone's feeling by telling them the truth, you are simply trying to open up their eyes. Honesty is truly the best policy. 

Dysfunctional Family

Definition of Family
Family - Group of relatives, a group of people who are closely related by birth, marriage, or adoption.

Blood is thicker than water! That is a saying that we hear to much, but do people really understand what that means? I do not think so, when you have family members that talk about each other, downing each other, bashing each other or whatever you want to call it, doesn't that seem quite odd? When they are not around, or when their back is turned that is when all the talking begins. Well when you care or have strong feelings for someone or something you do not talk about them in a negative way. (Then again read the definition of family at the top of this blog again, it does not say anything about love, caring, or nothing. )People just assume that since they are family we should love and care for one another, but in some cases they treat each other more like roommates. Some people even show favoritism towards some family members when they shouldn't. Everyone should be able to turn to their family to get that feeling of love. Sometimes outsiders such as friends get treated better than family. They do not share the same bloodline as you, so why do they get put up on a pedestal?

Music!!

      Everybody loves music, but not all types of music. Everybody has their preference whether it be Rap, R&B, Jazz, Rock or Techno. There is a difference between music and great music. I listen to music everyday, it would be all day if I could but there is not enough good music out here anymore. Music is an escape for most, when listening to certain songs it can take you away to a different place. The music that people are coming out with these days can not be compared to songs from the past. Any body can come out with some words over a beat, whether its classified as trash or good music is the question. I just wish people would come out with more good music.