I know sometimes it can be hard to tell someone the truth, because you are taking their feelings into consideration. Honestly hearing the truth from a person you consider your friend is much better than hearing it from someone who barely knows you, if they know you at all. Most people fear the truth in certain situations. If you have a friend who has promiscuous tendencies let her know that she might wanna change her ways before she gets labeled as something negative. Be straight up with her so that she gets the point. Same thing goes for a person that buys this and that to increase their sex appeal thinking its helping when actually its making the whole situation worse. Let them know that buying accessories, tight clothes, long hair, fancy cars, and what ever else people do to get noticed is not what they should be doing. Lazy people need to be told the truth also, that no one wants to clean up, take care, or support another grown person. So they need to get up and do something with their life. People who eat to much, just tell them that it is not healthy, and that they need to slow down. You are not trying to hurt anyone's feeling by telling them the truth, you are simply trying to open up their eyes. Honesty is truly the best policy.
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