2014 - A Work In Progress

This is pretty much going to be a run-down or summary of what happens in 2014....

I will update as things happen...


1. My nephews make six months
2. Chicago blessed us with a surplus of snow
3. One of my friends/brother gets robbed. (sad day)
4. Chicago decided to have two of the coldest days I have witnessed (-40 &-30)
5. Having conversations about making T-Shirts
6. Fun night with the bros
7. My brother becomes an uncle again (his sister had her baby)
8. My mother starts up her ideas for my blog.
9. Spent the day with Br33zy and Rick.
10. Vicky started to show that she care about my friend.
11. My nephews decide to come visit me.
12. MiMi started walking.
13. Making money.
14. DiBiase is in school.
15. Ricky started working.
16. My Aunt birthday.
17. The Seahawks demolish the Broncos in the Super Bowl
18. My other Aunt's birthday
19. I watched my nephews for the first by myself.
20. I was selected to join the YearUp program (IT program)
21. My cousin gave birth to Ivory my new cousin.

Communication is Key!

Communication is the key and the base to all real relationships. You can't even call yourself a friend if you never talk to that person. Some people think just saying hi, how you doing, and bye is having a conversation; but that is basically checking up on somebody. Some people suck at communication, we all know or have a few people like that in our life. How is a person going to know if you're going through something or need some help if you don't talk to them about it. Even through text messages, for an example if I never hear from you after I have reached out numerous times there is no point of me even texting you. Communication goes a long way, there has to be some kind of communication to get any where.

The Truth Is Always Better !!

The TRUTH may hurt for a little while, but a LIE hurts forever!!

I know sometimes it can be hard to tell someone the truth, because you are taking their feelings into consideration. Honestly hearing the truth from a person you consider your friend is much better than hearing it from someone who barely knows you, if they know you at all. Most people fear the truth in certain situations. If you have a friend who has promiscuous tendencies let her know that she might wanna change her ways before she gets labeled as something negative. Be straight up with her so that she gets the point. Same thing goes for a person that buys this and that to increase their sex appeal thinking its helping when actually its making  the whole situation worse. Let them know that buying accessories, tight clothes, long hair, fancy cars, and what ever else people do to get noticed is not what they should be doing. Lazy people need to be told the truth also, that no one wants to clean up, take care, or support another grown person. So they need to get up and do something with their life. People who eat to much, just tell them that it is not healthy, and that they need to slow down. You are not trying to hurt anyone's feeling by telling them the truth, you are simply trying to open up their eyes. Honesty is truly the best policy.